The Golden Rule, the ethic of reciprocity, exists in two forms: positive and negative.
Positive: do to others what you would like to be done to you
negative: do not do to others what you would not like to be done to you
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
I am blessed
I am blessed to have Isaac! he was such a good baby, now as a toddler, he brought me surprises every day. He also impresses daycare teacher and every day they are eager to tell me things (good things, of course) happen with Isaac which makes me feel so proud. I feel like to write down some before I forget.
story 1:
he made friends in Day 1 when I was still in daycare. I saw Isaac came to a boy called Anton, Anton was not happy because her mom just left. Isaac gave him a toy that he has been playing. After Anton accepted, he tried to hold his hand to walk to another corner.
story 2:
On one day in May, he has attended daycare for 1 month. The teacher told me that in playground, Isaac talked to Anton. they both talked in baby language ( both are 2 years old, barely speak). After a while, the little boy cried and called "mommy, mommy..". Isaac then patted his back gentlely and said " it's ok, it's ok".
story 3:
In playground, a little girl tried to grab the ball Isaac held, Isaac did not give to her, then the girl cried. Isaac looked at the girl, he went and got another ball for her.
story 4:
When a kid is crying, Issac always hugs the kid to comfort him/her, even it is not his fault to make the kid cry.
story 1:
he made friends in Day 1 when I was still in daycare. I saw Isaac came to a boy called Anton, Anton was not happy because her mom just left. Isaac gave him a toy that he has been playing. After Anton accepted, he tried to hold his hand to walk to another corner.
story 2:
On one day in May, he has attended daycare for 1 month. The teacher told me that in playground, Isaac talked to Anton. they both talked in baby language ( both are 2 years old, barely speak). After a while, the little boy cried and called "mommy, mommy..". Isaac then patted his back gentlely and said " it's ok, it's ok".
story 3:
In playground, a little girl tried to grab the ball Isaac held, Isaac did not give to her, then the girl cried. Isaac looked at the girl, he went and got another ball for her.
story 4:
When a kid is crying, Issac always hugs the kid to comfort him/her, even it is not his fault to make the kid cry.
Having a big heart 2
I actually do not know if I made a correct statement: a big heart is not born but brought up. In many aspects it might be true, but I do feel that some characteristics in one's personalities are born. it can be seen since one was a baby.
Having a big heart
Henry and I had a meaningful talking tonight. He told me that his boss Chris has very high IQ and EQ, although he only has college degree. He feels that he has a big heart! very clam, nothing really bothers him, always face difficulties with smiling, treat others so nice. I guess he is very confident too.
A big heart is not born but brought up. parents are the role model of kids, if parents want their kids to have a big heart, they need to have big hearts!
A big heart is not born but brought up. parents are the role model of kids, if parents want their kids to have a big heart, they need to have big hearts!
Diaonosr 2
It is very interesting and inspiration to have a conversation with 4.5 years old. Often it is quite challenge for me. One day, he said: "mom, why did not God make human being along with diaonosrs? " It seems that he is still thinking that maybe the fire fighters can save the diaonosr if there is human being at the diaonosr era. It is a tough question which I do not know either.
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